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Everyone

The community agreement.

Sessions work because everyone holds up a small, simple deal. Here it is, in full, in plain words.

Things you never need to do

And if the group looks like it already knows each other, you are not interrupting. Making room is the whole idea.

The few things we ask of everyone

Stay for the tea

The activity is the excuse; the people are the point. Lots of sessions end at a cafe or with a flask on a bench, and the tea, coffee, biscuits and chat afterwards are not an optional extra. They are where the session actually happens: names get learned, lifts get offered, next week gets planned. If you only have time for one half, some weeks the second half is the better choice.

Where the boundaries are

Hosts are volunteers, not counsellors or medics, and sessions are company, not crisis support. If you need someone to talk to right now, Samaritans are open 24 hours a day on 116 123, free, and you do not have to be in crisis to ring. In an emergency, call 999.

If something at a session does not feel right, you can block and report from your account, and a person, not an algorithm, will look at it. The full safety model is on the safeguarding page.

Pilot preparation. Sessions have not started yet. This is the agreement they will run under from day one.